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i agree with your statements love is held by many weather for the right reasons or wrong me myself i have never been the type to love money i need it to pay these high price bills i have thoe...lol sex was a major addiction for me ...and i have come to admit it and i miss the taste but i am trying my hardest to wait for my mr...forever or ms....forever enjoyed this a lot
Youre doing good! The only reason Im not having sex is because of geeky. If it werent for us being together (although hes halfway around the world right now) I would be calling up my "friend"on a regular basis. I broke all contact to those kind of "friends"after I met geeky. thanks for the taking the time to read it. I know its alot
and it is great that you broke the connections with them Question for you....i will pm you
this is a wondering mind here...... i found it kind of hard to take everything you said seriously- to be honest (but of course;-)) okay first up. LOVE- is very different to obsession, lust, infatuation, friendliness, companionship ect. girls jumping of building becuase robbie williams left a singing group- isn't any example of love. i really disagreed with your simplistic "love is nice". i disagree. my definition of love is- LOVE IS A LIFE LONG COMMITTMENT- it is a decision made. you might deeply care for a person and feel intense feelings for them, without making the ultimate decision to LOVE them. for me, these two cooncept are mutually exculsive- yeah- might me radical on this issue- but hey- that is my name (radical_love) LOL! okay next up. SEX. hmmmm, never having had experinced this myself- i will go off advice of people who have-yourself included. it seems to me that SEX, has really lost its value in our current society- now sex can be bought, uses as a selling technique to sell dull consumerist products ect ect. SEX- (once again a radical view- but hey) is designed as a bonding technique, and for the enjoyment of those in a loving relationship, a relationship of committment- e.g. marriage. i know this is a very different take on the 'casual sex' attitude that society thorws around- and that you indeed have confessed to taking part in. casual sex devalues yourself, and the future sex you have with a person that you DO choose to commit to. i think you've really come to realise this with geeky- thus the holding off, for him. this is because you value him and may i put it- place a higher value on on yourself when you are in a relationship with someone who loves you.(as in love- the commitment- not 'love' the shallow 'like', 'care for' or 'am attracted to'. ) anyway-t hat my response to you 'love' speil. next up money. *sigh*. sick and tired of discussing money. i think we should see it as a means to survive- not as surviving for the gaining of means....if that makes sense. im pretty anti-consumerist, anti-captilast and wpould be pro- the world going back to the medieval bartering system (its much better for the environment)....anyway. thats my 2 cents- happy to expand or respond to more particular questions.....  millie
I think your view on sex is a good one, a healthy one at that. There are alot of reasons to have casual sex, most women who I know who have been VERY promiscious all had issues, to be blunt about it. Some women need to "fill the void"or they believe a man will like them if they "give it up". Others just like to show off. ( Not sure why being easy is a reason to show off but hey, if it makes them feel better. whatever) I knew all this stuff at an early age ( I was with a man from the age of 15 to 20 before I met david) so I was "immune"to that. My reason for "wildin out"was that I was a good girl for so long and I wanted to see what all I missed out on. I wanted to "get it out of my system". My grandma acually was the one who gave me that advice. LOL (turns out getting it out of my system was a good thing for me to do. Not good for everyone, but it worked for me) Alot of people have problems commiting because they feel they are missing out, so I dont think its a bad thing to have some fun before you choose to commit. I just think they need to be smart about it. I knew a girl who had sex with over 16 men within a year..she was 13. Thats sad. uuum, have to read what else you wrote for a second. LOL oh, devalues sex..... acually, the fact that both geeky and I were able to have sexual relations without emotion makes it even more special to be in love and have sex. Sex and making love is a big difference. I havent met anyone yet who thought otherwise. There arent too many women around here that are able to do that though. They get emotionaly involved too easily, which is why men tend to "hit and run". MARRIAGE.... haha! Yeah, I wanted my marriage to last. Didnt know what would happen. There is NEVER a guarantee. Which was why I didnt wait til marriage to beginn with. I didnt see a need in it. I was in a relationship with the first guy I loved. I was young but we were together a long time and I dont regret not waiting. I still have a little bit of hope, only because there a some people that are married 30 years and counting.( Besides, theres the saying "you want to test drive before you buy the car".... doesnt apply to everyone but whoever said it sure had a point. ) MONEY... "i think we should see it as a means to survive- not as surviving for the gaining of means" I know exaclty what you mean and you are absolutely right! The only reason I bother worrying about money is because I need to survive and even more important, I have Josh to take care of. I always thought money was a pain in the ass. Money = power and power = stupid decisions. Just look at who is in charge of the money. They have the power and the decisions they make are..... we all see how the economy is doing. Ok, im done. LOL I hope I was able to explain right. Sometimes I cant get words out the way I want to. being bilingual and a dork sure has its disadvantages. LOL Thanks for your 2 cents millie. I appreciate your honesty. always fun writing with you! | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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